My Wedding Video
To those of you who could not attend my wedding on September 01, 2008 - here’s the video of it for your viewing pleasure.
Video produced by GregsVideo.com and was perhaps one of the best decisions I made for my wedding. Both my wife and me were initially very excited about getting married, until my parent stepped in and almost ruined everything for me.
They keep insisting I do things their way, according to “our culture”, and before I knew it the entire wedding was heading off in a different direction. I’m sorry to say I never really followed Indian culture, as I find it rather outdated and shallow. Now I’m being forced into it, like it or not.
A lot arguments later (more like a war) they finally got their way but I decided to get a good video producer so I can have better memories of what’s supposed to be the most important day of my life.
My wife Sheila and me have been going out since February 2006, and after almost 2 years we got engaged. Legally, we were married on 28th May this year. However the cultural ceremonies didn’t take place till 1st September this year.
Sheila works as a journalist for New Straits Times, and she loves her job.
I thank everyone who attended my wedding, and the lunch reception in Melaka on the 14th. It really felt good seeing you guys there.
With all the wedding-related arguments now a thing of the past, I look forward to a happy life with Sheila. This video will be one of the most important things for us to remember our wedding, and I’m sure you’ll agree with me the memories look really good 
Hey, Gobala, good video there and cograts to you. Where are you planning to go for your honeymoon?
And, I just skimmed through your new book and I must say, if any newbie want to dive into the world of money making online, that book is the best guide they can get.
And it even better than what most “gurus” sell.
(If you’re a newbie, stop buying any e-books and just give Gobala RM30+ for that book. It worth it
Hi Gobala
Great video!
Thanks for sharing it with us.
May you have a wonderful future…
Man, congrat ..
When u will show ur baby’s face to us again?
hahhahah
Not for the next 2 years
I want to travel more.
Hi Gobala,
Sweet. Although I’m not understand meaning of the song but I can feel the romanticism is!
Congra to you, wish you happy as a clam and all your dream come true.
Blogger,
Vincent
I don’t understand the meaning either
Wah! So good, you look so happy! Congratulation…!
Where you go for the honey moon? No wonder long time no see you posting:)
Wish you a happy marriage and all the best for you and your wife!
Check my next post for honeymoon info
Congrats man! Well done video and it looks brilliant! Im in the midst of planing mine as well and dude..i understand your pains man! Its a superb video never the less and you have to hook me up with them man!
Cheers & congrats!
Abi
You chose a great date for your “legal” wedding (28th May). Coz it’s my birth day… : )
Fantastic video!
We should celebrate together then
Save cost
Congratulation man! that was a nice video
All the best
Congratulations Gobala!!
Welcome to the club, finally! hehe
Hope you and your wife will live happily ever after.
Touching on the ‘war’ which you mentioned, hehe, well believe me, I think it happens to almost everyone of us living in this generation, and it happened to me too.
But of course my wife and I kept things cool since we don’t like to get into heated arguments over these things so as to respect our parents.
I’ve asked my friends and family members and almost all of them went through the same phase.. :-(, except those whose parents are no longer around.
Anyway, stay cool always and enjoy your marriage life bro!
Have a great day!
Best Wishes,
Ameer Salim
I think it’s the huge generation gap between people our age and our parents. Sometimes it’s pretty clear no matter how much you explain they are never going to see things the way you see it.
Hi Gobala,
Congratulation! I love your wedding movie.
I just launched my blog at http://www.TJune.com/wordpress .
You can watch my movie as well at http://www.TJune.com, but it is not my wedding movie.
It is my new way to inform my mum that we have baby!
Btw, when is your Millionaire Internet book released? I cannt find at MPH Book store….
Thanks
Best regards
TJ@JuneGift.com
http://www.TJune.com
You can ask MPH for the title, they should be able to guide you. MPH has thousands of books, last month my books were on “new arrivals” so it was easy to find.
Hey Gobs,
Nice wedding!
Even though Vince, Dennis and I traveled all the way to Melaka, we enjoyed the wedding because it was so unique compared to Chinese weddings… hehe.
And the singing was quite entertaining as well!
Lucky I wasn’t the one singing eh
Lol..
Thanks Khai for coming, seeing u guys there was a real pleasure for me and Sheila.
Hi Bala,
Great video! So meaningful and really captured the special moment. Sheila looked so beautiful and you were very dashing. Here’s wishing you both many, many years of happiness!
love to you both,
shwu
Very nice to see the video Gobala Krishnan, i got your link from dailyseoblog.com
Thanks for visiting
There goes your bachelorhood.
You’ve just been elevated to unclehood now!
Congrats buddy and may you have a lifetime of happiness with Shila.
So, we’re going to Starbucks SS15 eh?
congrats bala my bro
my regards to ur wife and i with both of u happy sailing. i heard, married life is pretty awesome
sorry for not being able to make it to ur reception as it fall on ramadhan month and im fasting, but u call always call me and we can always go celebrate at nearby mamak
bring ur wife so i can meet her
okay bro, takecare!
Mr & Mrs Gobala,
You guys look great together !!I am thrilled and happy for the both of you !!
Wishing you a fabulous and blessed married life !!
*Hugs*
Congrats bro,
Welcome to the club. Every successful man there is a woman behind him. Wish you more happy and success to your future endeavour. GO.GO.GO..
To Your Success
Sofyan AJ
You guys deserved it…
Congratulations!
Congratulations Gobala… the video was very well produced indeed.
Congratulation Gobala.Happy wedding.The video was so nice.Hope you will be happy ending.
Congratulations bro. Nice wedding video. Enjoyed it very much. May your marriage last forever. Ameen.
Congratulation from me n family.
This is the topic I discuss with one of my survey friend. This year he should be 36 and still no settle down.
There is nothing to enjoy if we still single. Your soul still empty. Once you have your own family with children, you can feel the “parent” taste.
Believe me.
Hi Congrat..
are you a malayalee..looks like the wedding style that way..
anyway a bit stylish
Gobala! Finally you took the plunge! I’m sure it’s a wonderful jump! Ha ha. Congrats to you and your Sheila. May you be blessed with all the good things in life.
Normal lah, parents will always want to have a say. But it’s nice to have a little bit of culture in it.
Really good cinematic video production. Loved it. The best I have seen so far.
congrats bro…see you soon!
Hai Gobala. Congratulation man!
Welcome to the club.
From,
Syed Ikhwan & JomSeminar Team.
conrats man…!! i saw the video… very beautiful wedding..
Congratulations Gobala!
Congratulations! Nice video. You look very good as a couple. You change for the better after you are married.
Many congratulations and may you be blessed with many children. Enjoy your honeymoon !
You may have had many argument with your parents regarding your planning for the WEDDING, now you can start having argument with your wife planning for your MARRIAGE…..!
Cheers mate !
The videographer did an excellent job in capturing the event! Congrats on your wedding!
Thanks for your compliments on the video!
Hi Gobala, congratulation, wish you all the best and happy sailing with your beloved wife. Your video is great, and really nice!
Regards,
Jonathan Haryanto
just like watching bollywood movie, so romantic..
you look like Salman Khan in this movie
Maybe you can consider acting after this hehe
congrat on your wedding
I know, the resemblance is uncanny.
Hi Gobala,
Congrates!… Selamat Pengantin Baru.
May God blessing with happiness and harmonise family.
Rgds.
Zaki
Congratulations Sheila and Gobala. May you be blessed in all your future endeavors together. It is probably a good thing you listened to your parents….. I am sure it was a BIG day for them as well. It his hard to break from customs and I’ll bet you look on this day in the future and maybe understand abit more about where they were coming from. I am proud of you for at least bending a little bit and I want you to mark the words of an old man here, your day will be coming in the future and don’t be surprised how you react to your childrens wedding(s)…. Good Luck in ALL you do……. Jerry
Hi Gobala Krishnan,
I am a Tamilian from INDIA and felt so happy seeing your Marriage Vid. Hearty Congratulations for your Married Life.
Wishes & Warm Regards to You and Your Family,
kavida.
So grand and different from what I have seen.
Congrats !
good video. well produced. congratulations on ur wedding and have a great life ahead
Congratulations! Nice video wish you all the best
Congratulations! What a beautiful (and well-done) video! Very nice of you to share it and also nice to see a different culture’s matrimonial ceremony is like! Lovely!
Bless you both on your new life together!
Hi Gobala…this is greg from GregsVideo.Com!
Really thank you so much for having the trust in us…glad we did the job for you..! and i must say that we really enjoyed ourselves filming the entire wedding, u and sheila were just amazing! u rocks man! thanks for the hospitality showed upon us too!
Greg
Congratulation to both of you, Gobala and Sheila.
Wonderful wedding video and understand why the parents wanted to have their ways. Yes, to preserve the culture and tradition forever. I can see from the video that you are obedient children.
And now the knot is tied and like the eagle, with two strong wings now bring you to higher height and live…Happily ever after….
Hey… Congratz Gobala… I hope you achieve more success in the future because you already have someone to take care about your life
Best Regards from Indonesia
Hi Gobala and Sheila,
First, I would like to congratulate you both and wish you two a wonderful & good life together.
Secondly, I like to thank you very much for the wedding video, very interesting indeed!
If you don’t mind, I have added it to my YouTube favourite and have attached the url to my blogger at :
http://lilyarbee.blogspot.com/
Be happy always and hope you both get a junior pretty soon!
Cheers!
From Marang, Terengganu,
Lily Arbee
Thanks for adding the video in Youtube!
Congratulations Many happy wedding day Returns and HAPPY MARRIED LIFE for Shiela and Gobala Krishnan
Video programme is excellent and is memorable with the beatiful music song
Mrs & Mr Gopal Kishan Thirunagari
India
Hi Gobala Krishnan & Sheila,
First, I would like to congratulate you both and wish both a wonderful and good life together.
Secondly, thank very much for the great video. Very interesting indeed and I do enjoy watching it. In fact, I have added your wedding video to my YouTube favourite.
I have also passed it to my friends to share your joy.
Last but not least, hope you both get a junior pretty soon!
From Marang, Terengganu,
Gobala,
Thank you for sharing your special day with us.
In a world of cold internet marketers, it was a joy to see the personal side of one of those I have followed over the years.
May you and Sheila have many happy years together.
I have always been intrigued by other culture’s traditions, and we often only see the result and not the process and compromise that has been part of the path to a specific day. While I sense you had your frustrations, I see your commitment to your new wife and you still made the most of this special day. It is the same passion I have observed in your business.
Thank you for being one of the good guys, and again for sharing.
I will be watching you as you hopefully continue to share your knowledge and experiences with us who have not risen to your level yet.
Best wishes and congratulations from Canada!
Dale
Hello Gobala,
This is just a beautiful wedding video. What a gorgeous bride & groom you both are. Thank you for sharing this.
Marlene Cronkhite
Gobala & Sheila
It was a pleasure to meet you in Jakarta. And am so Happy to hear about your wedding. Have fun in marriage.. I will follow your step
Looking forward to meet you up or discuss with you
Regards
Dee
Ps. don’t forget to build legacy… you know that Gobala JR.